Thread: Magick for finding love

I have not been in any 'situation' where I can meet somebody

Perhaps, instead of magic for once, you need a good stiff drink at a seedy pub?

Originally Posted by Plarkenstorf

Perhaps, instead of magic for once, you need a good stiff drink at a seedy pub?

I don't use magick for any trifle thing (not that I think its wrong), I have tried pubs too but haven't met any single girl there. To be honest, the country in which I live, sex is still somewhat a taboo, in many families women even after turning 18 are not allowed to go out late at night. Now please don't tell me to relocate

Thankyou, hope I have not given the impression of being so desperate

Originally Posted by ZeldaFitz

I understood every thing you wrote, the right person will come along, when it is time.

No you did not give me the impression you were desperate at all. I find once you feel comfortable in your own skin, and can truly feel fine about being alone, not lonely but alone, and when you have forgotten about it, love finds you.

I have struggled with this sort of thing too. I know for myself I have studied and practice the art of pickup to this end. The stat that I always try to remember is that 8 out of 10 of the women I approach will already be involved and not open to me. I add that only a few % of that 20% will not run screaming into the night or try to "save me" when they find out I practice the magickal arts. I live in the bible belt of the US so many think I need saving. I try to stack the deck in my favor by going to places that are more friendly to such practices. I know that once I got into some of the more public groups like meetup and the local pagan community center I was lead to the more private underground places that I never knew existed.

I have done some attraction rituals and they went kind of aunty Clara no me. The women would just pop up at the most inopportune moments and I could not really take advantage of the situation. I have since been working on doing approaches on my terms and that seems to work better for me. I can't say that I have found to woman of my dreams yet but I have had some nice experiences along the way and much less rejection because I can feel them out before I ever take the step of asking them out.

I don't know if this helps any but I feel your pain.

Jarhog you are very intuitive.

I should have added above that just because you are using the art of pickup does not mean that you can't use magick as part of your game.

I have done some attraction rituals and they went kind of aunty Clara no me. The women would just pop up at the most inopportune moments and I could not really take advantage of the situation.

I have a similar experience. I did a ritual with a picture of a girl I feel strongly for and my will was so sharp even with all winds blowing in the other direction. It made the spell that more powerful. Like yours though I saw the girl in my town from my car even though she lives in Madison and I had an appoitment and didn't stop. Though I wish I had. Talk about a rejection of the higher will being in synch with my human will.

Originally Posted by Jarhog

I add that only a few % of that 20% will not run screaming into the night or try to "save me" when they find out I practice the magickal arts.

The fourth power of the Sphinx is silence.

That is to say, why does anyone need to know?

Albeit, I wear long hair and a beard, and I've begun getting my alchemical tattoo's, but not even my tattooist/piercer has any real clue as to what's actually going on in the process. I don't advertise though, and if I was pressed for an explanation, I'd hardly find it hard to explain what those symbols are and what they mean to me to a lover.

'course I don't bed women casually, and have no care to, but in the event someone cared enough to try to "save" me, or was offended, I'd shrug my shoulders and move on if they truly felt that way after I'd explained my beliefs.